Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach
Hey, flirty! With new episodes dropping every week, Flirtations is your go-to resource for getting out of your head and into the flirt! I’m so excited to bring you classic conversations on timeless dating questions around pacing, communication, and confidence ... with a unique Flirt Coach perspective! You can expect thought provoking, inclusive conversations with an array of guests and much, much more. Let’s flirt!
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18 hours ago
18 hours ago
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Sam Ogborn, a marketing strategist, creator, and pop culture commentator who has a unique lens on how the internet influences the ways we connect.
Sam is here to help us break down the narratives we’re constantly consuming — from viral videos to marketing campaigns — and what they reveal about our desires, expectations, and identities.
How do algorithms and social media shape dating? What about the role of AI? How do we search for belonging and community online — through fandoms, message boards, and private spaces - and what does it mean for connection?
Finally, where do we go from here? Are algorithm free spaces the new frontier online? This one’s all about dating in the age of algorithms, and how we can still find something real in a digital world.
Alright Flirties, it’s time to log on, slow the scroll, and meet Sam!
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About our guest: Sam Ogborn is a marketing strategist, content creator, and adjunct professor who has built a fulfilling career - and an online audience of 170,000+ marketers - by blending strategic expertise with authentic storytelling.
After 14+ years in the corporate world, including marketing leadership roles at Red Bull and Synchrony where she specialized in content, brand, and digital marketing, Sam now works as a marketing advisor to ambitious brands and teaches social media and content marketing at Miami University.
Sam's insights on marketing, career development, and the creator economy have been featured in NPR, Digiday, and more. She's a firm believer in learning by doing - and sharing those lessons with her community along the way.
You can connect with Sam on Instagram, TikTok, and Substack.
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

4 days ago
4 days ago
Are you ready to date deliciously?!
On this episode, we welcome Torah Cents, who is going to give us all the details on how to infuse more fun, passion, pleasure, and desire into your dating life for an ultimately delicious experience!
We'll hear how to date deliciously on the apps and in person, creating engaging conversations that are sure to keep things interesting - and lead to to dates! Of course we've got some tips on how to flirt deliciously, too!
But that's not all. We'll be talking about how to savor confidence and feel more empowered and secure when meeting new people and going through the dating process. If you don't know what lover girl limits just yet - and why you need them - you'll soon find out!
Finally, we've got wrapped up in this episode several mindset shifts to date with more presence, more ease, and more calm so you can make truly inspired connections, get out of your head, and enjoy just how delicious dating can be!
*originally aired September 22, 2024*
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About our guest: Torah Cents is known for her practical and unorthodox approach to dating for Women of Faith. She believes that dating should be delicious…and if it’s not…you’re doing it wrong.
She has helped thousands of women attract quality men, confidently date for the relationships they desire and has been fully launched on a mission to help women of faith create real options in men and choose themselves first (instead of waiting for a man to choose them).
🔥 She’s the Founder of Curved to Cuffed™️ - the #1 mentorship for successful women of faith who want to attract quality, marriage-minded men.
💍 And the Creator of the Triple Threat Success Method™️ that has helped women go from no dates to a wedding date in less than a year.
And when she’s not coaching you may see her releasing new episodes of her podcast, learning new tricks in her pole dancing class, spending time with her family and meeting up with her clients in different areas of the country. You can also follow Torah on Instagram!
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

4 days ago
Flirtini #21: 7 Ways to Date Yourself!
4 days ago
4 days ago
It’s a BRAND NEW Flirtini!
This one is all about how to date (aka choose) yourself!
Why this matters, what this looks like, and how to do it!
Inside the episode, 7️⃣ ways to date yourself!
💗 Happy Flirting! 💗
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Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
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About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Monday Oct 06, 2025
141. Romanticize Your Life: Self Love and Confidence with Claira Hermet
Monday Oct 06, 2025
Monday Oct 06, 2025
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re joined by Claira Hermet to have a conversation with us about self-love, confidence, and how we can turn ordinary moments into something extraordinary.
Claira is a coach, speaker, and creator who inspires women all over the world to fall in love with themselves and to romanticize everyday life.
In this episode, we’re talking about the truth behind self love and confidence, what it means to practice confidence, the misconceptions that can keep us stuck, and how romanticizing your life can change not only how you see yourself, but how you show up in dating and relationships.
We’ll also hear about Claira’s personal story of loss, how our experiences can shape how we understand ourselves, and how we can find our way through.
Alright Flirties, let’s talk confidence, self love, romanticizing our lives, and lean into the hopeful romantic inside all of us.
Now let’s meet Claira!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
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Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
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About our guest: Claira Hermet is a dynamic media personality with a diverse background in presenting for BBC London, GRMDAILY.COM, SBTV, BT Sport, and BBC Radio 1Xtra.
As a content creator, self-love coach, and fitness enthusiast, I'm on a mission to empower individuals through genuine conversations.
Facing personal challenges, including the loss of my mother and sister to breast cancer, I underwent a preventive double mastectomy, sparking a transformative journey. I candidly share my experiences with humor and authenticity in vlogs and posts, covering topics like mental health, dating, and solo travel.
Committed to fostering inclusivity, I blend relatability and entertainment in my content, creating a secure community. My unique approach inspires others to embrace authenticity, making me a beacon of empowerment on the path of self-improvement.
Connect with Claira on Instagram.
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Thursday Oct 02, 2025
Thursday Oct 02, 2025
On the show today is none other than Star Monroe! We've got an incredible conversation about how to embrace - strut! - into main character energy (and what the truly means), as well as how to decenter men and center your fine self!
A few topics discussed include internal vs. external validation, seeing the world through the male gaze, what happens to the ego during times of self doubt, the importance of embodying healing (and how to do it), the truth about authenticity, and more.
After the main interview, the mics stayed hot once more and the Flirt Coach ... got coached! You don't wanna miss this moment.
Then for the second segment of this episode, I've got a meditation for you on cultivating inner confidence that pairs perfectly with Star's interview. You can listen to it driving, but at least pull over to do the practice! 😂
*originally aired June 16, 2024*
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
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About our guest: Star Monroe, a licensed psychotherapist and master life coach, is dedicated to supporting ambitious, successful women over 50 who refuse to settle. She champions women to demand more from themselves before seeking it from the world. Her mission is clear: inspire women to take exceptional care of their mind, body, soul, and dreams, and decenter men to lead a life of excellence. Become fiercely assertive and unapologetically confident with Star Monroe’s guidance, embracing the ethos of The High Standards Woman to Live A Life of Excellence.
The Magnetic Woman: 7 Days to Become Irresistible to Your Desires Course
Connect with Star on Instagram and TikTok
https://www.msstarmonroe.com/
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Flirtini #20: Getting Over a Situationship
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
It’s a BRAND NEW Flirtini!
This one is all about how to get over a situationship!
Here’s what you can expect:
➡️ What is a situationship? (and what else we can call it!)
➡️ Why does it often hurt when they end?
➡️ What happens in the brain and body?
➡️ What are some ways to “get over” aka move on from a situationship?
➡️ Is a situationship ever the right thing to do?
➡️ What are some characteristics of this type of connection?
➡️ How can I get closure and look forward?
➡️ What if they want to stay in my life?
💗 Happy Flirting! 💗
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Watch on YouTube!
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Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee!
Take the FREE Flirt Styles Quiz
Get INSTANT ACCESS to my anti-anxiety flirting and dating guide
Download my FLIRTING AND TEXTING CONVERSATION GUIDE
Grab my FREE Dating App Survival handbook
Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
Ask the Flirt Coach
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Monday Sep 29, 2025
Monday Sep 29, 2025
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re talking anxiety, overthinking, and perfectionism in dating!
You know that feeling when you replay every text, second-guess what you said on a date, or try so hard to show up as your “best self” that you forget to just be yourself?
Joining us for this conversation is Dr. Jennifer Wolkin. Dr. Jen is a neuropsychologist, writer, and ADHD advocate, here to help us make peace with our brains, understand ourselves a little bit more, and why we do think the things we do!
Inside the episode, we’ll hear about what happens in the brain when we’re overthinking, how perfectionism can sabotage connection, and where dating anxiety really comes from.
Dr. Jen shares simple practices for grounding yourself before a date, how we can reframe perfectionism and worry, and building self-compassion along the way.
This one is all about the neuroscience behind our emotions in dating and how we can not all anxiety and overthinking to run the show.
Alright Flirties, let’s take a breath, let go of the “what-ifs,” and meet Dr. Jen!
Watch on YouTube!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
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Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
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About our guest: Dr. Jen, PhD, MFA, is a licensed psychologist, and Harvard-trained neuropsychologist. She founded a private practice with an appreciation that our mind, body, and brain are intimately intertwined and impacted by one another. She is also a writer, speaker, mindfulness practitioner, and mental health advocate.
Her first book, Quick Calm: Easy meditations to short-circuit stress using mindfulness and neuroscience, was published in 2021. Her next book about finding your ADHD Blueprint is forthcoming from Tarcher in 2026. She has her MFA in poetry, and has published in multiple literary journals, mostly writing what she likes to name "neuro-poetry."
Dr. Jen is in Menopause, and unabashedly neurodiverse.
You can connect with Dr. Jen on Instagram (ADHD Page/Personal Page)
Buy the book, Quick Calm: Easy Meditations
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Thursday Sep 25, 2025
138. Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response with Dr. Ingrid Clayton
Thursday Sep 25, 2025
Thursday Sep 25, 2025
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Dr. Ingrid Clayton to the show! Dr. Clayton is a clinical psychologist, speaker, and author of the brand-new book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves and How to Find Our Way Back.
If you’ve ever found yourself people-pleasing, over-accommodating, or twisting into knots to keep the peace in dating and relationships, this episode is for you.
Fawning is known as the ‘fourth trauma response’—alongside fight, flight, and freeze—and it’s one that often flies under the radar. It can look like kindness or care, but at its core, it’s a survival strategy that leads to self-abandonment.
In this conversation, we’ll unpack what fawning really is, how it shows up in dating and relationships, the cost of constantly prioritizing others and—most importantly—how to begin the healing journey so you can show up in dating without losing yourself.
Along the way, we’ll also get into how fawning is different from people pleasing and masking, what happens in the body during a trauma, and strategies for reclaiming the self.
This one is about understanding the roots of the most overlooked trauma response and carving a path forward for healing.
Alright Flirties, let’s do this, and meet Dr. Ingrid Clayton!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
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About our guest: Dr. Ingrid Clayton is a clinical psychologist with a Master’s in transpersonal psychology and a PhD in clinical psychology. She is an author whose groundbreaking work explorescomplex trauma and the fawn response. With over two decades of clinical experience, Ingridblends personal narrative, psychological research, and cultural insight to offer a fresh, de-shaming perspective on healing.
Her work integrates trauma-informed modalities like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR, and other nervous system–oriented practices that support real, embodied transformation. She believes healing happens in relationship, and the heart of her practice has always been real connection and collaboration.
Ingrid’s work has been featured in Psychology Today, Oprah Daily, Women’s Health and more.Her memoir, Believing Me: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma, has resonatedwith thousands of readers for its honesty, humor, and heart.
Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves -- and How to Find Our Way Back
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About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Flirtini #19: How to Get a Date!
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
It's a BRAND NEW Flirtini!
In the last one we talked about multi-dating and in this one, it's how to get a date!
Here's what you can expect:
➡️ Where to meet people: online vs. in person
➡️ The dating app trick you need so your profile stands out
FREE Dating App Survival Guide
➡️ Meeting people in person (what do looks have to do with it?)
➡️ How to detach from expectations (and thus seeing yourself how you want to be perceived)
➡️ How to handle potential rejection
➡️ How to actually meet people (eh hem, flirt with your life!)
➡️ Where to meet people
➡️ Conversation tips/strategies
➡️ Breaking down two common pieces of dating advice: "It happens when you least expect it," and "everything happens for a reason"
➡️ Your Flirtini homework and what comes next
💗 Happy Flirting! 💗
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Watch on YouTube!
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Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee!
Take the FREE Flirt Styles Quiz
Get INSTANT ACCESS to my anti-anxiety flirting and dating guide
Download my FLIRTING AND TEXTING CONVERSATION GUIDE
Grab my FREE Dating App Survival handbook
Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
Ask the Flirt Coach
About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Sunday Sep 21, 2025
Sunday Sep 21, 2025
Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we’re looking at the intersection of sexuality, trust, expectations, and accountability in dating!
Joining us is Dr. Juliana Hauser, a licensed couples and family therapist, known as the “sexpert’s sexpert” for her decades of work in sex and relationships, and author of the upcoming book "A New Position on Sex."
In the episode, we’ll explore how to distinguish between expectations and needs in dating, how to build trust through agency and accountability, and how understanding your own desires can transform the way you show up in relationships.
We’ll talk about the idea of accountability in dating and how we hold ourselves accountable first, - a big part of self -trust! — and trying to fix others or teach them how to be the partners we want them to be.
This one’s all about building trust, the role of accountability, managing expectations, and allowing our sexuality to take up as much space as we want.
Alirght Flirties, let’s do this, and meet Dr. Julianna!
Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world!
Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee!
Take the FREE Flirt Styles Quiz
Get INSTANT ACCESS to my anti-anxiety flirting and dating guide
Download my FLIRTING AND TEXTING CONVERSATION GUIDE
Grab my FREE Dating App Survival handbook
Book your 1:1 Flirting Audit
Ask the Flirt Coach
About our guest: With over two decades of experience supporting people to discover their own sexual agency, Dr. Juliana Hauser leads conversations about taboo topics like sex and sexuality, menopause, intimacy, relationships, and more, with approachability and expertise.
She has a PhD in Counseling Education; has a thriving virtual private practice; is a beloved media personality on screen, on stage, and in print; and is a TEDx speaker.
Dr. J is also the creator of the holistic sexuality courses including Revealed, and is the author of newly-released A New Position on Sex: A Guide to Greater Sexual Confidence, Pleasure, and Authenticity—find it on all major online retailers.
Learn more about "The List" Excercise
"A New Position on Sex" Get the book!
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About your host: Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.
Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.
His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, Men's Health, and Yoga Journal.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, watch on YouTube, and stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Meet the Flirt Coach!
Hello! My name is Benjamin. I'm the Flirt Coach and a gay libra! As a life long introvert and socially anxious member of society, connecting with people was one of the hardest things in the world for me to do. Making friends and going on dates were really challenging!
I would always be so in my head about wanting to talk, but feeling like I couldn't. The words would get stuck and I would put so much pressure on myself to say the right thing. I was also really disconnected from myself for most of my life.
But I believe SO MUCH in the power of connection and that we're here to learn from one another. To share moments and memories. Laughter and stories. To have hard conversations that lead us more deeply inward toward authenticity.
This is now what I have dedicated my life to! Connection - with others and with yourself. Whether you're dating, single (and maybe not dating!), or in a relationship, the Flirt Coach mission and Flirtations is for YOU! 💗