Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

65. From Anxious to Secure: How I Healed My Anxious Attachment with Mimi Watt

It's Attachment Theory Week on Flirtations!
Coming up on this episode, we welcome dating coach Mimi Watt to the show to share her story of going from anxious to secure as we explore the world of anxious attachment in dating!
Mimi breaks down how our attachment styles form and why understanding your attachment style can be a total game-changer in your love life.
If you've ever felt clingy, overly worried about where you stand with someone, or just find yourself caught in dating patterns that leave you feeling anxious—this episode is for you. 
Mimi shares powerful strategies to help you heal, grow, and move toward a more secure, centered connection with yourself and in all of your relationships.
So, whether you’re brand new to attachment theory or already on your healing journey, stick around because this conversation is about to bring some serious clarity and heart-healing advice your way. 
Now let’s meet Mimi! 
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About our guest:  Mimi Watt is a Dating & Relationship coach who helps people become secure within themselves and attract healthy love through healing their anxious attachment style. She does this using her signature Peacefully Attached Framework, which she has built from experience with her journey of becoming securely attached and helping dozens of clients do the same. She is passionate about helping you foster the most important relationship of all, the one you have with yourself. 
You can follow Mimi on Instagram and TikTok!
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

Flirtini #12: Flirting at a Coffeeshop! with Sommer Morel

Today's Flirtini takes place at a coffeeshop as we talk about flirting ... at a coffeeshop!
There are three places* you ask for for flirting tips the most and the coffeeshop is one of them! 
For this conversation, we welcome coffee educator, entrepreneur, and former barista Sommer Morel to the show as we answer your flirting questions!
Why are these spaces so good for flirting? How can you use them to your flirt advantage? How can you flirt with someone you see? What if you want to get approached?
Can you flirt with the barista? Do they flirt with customers? How can you tell?
Is coffee a bean or a fruit?
The answers to all these questions and more inside!
*(The other two are work and the gym, see Episode 20 or Flirtini #10 for those flirting details!)
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About our guest:  Sommer Morel is a traveling coffee consultant with a passion to make coffee education accessible for all. With years of expertise in cafe design, barista training and product sourcing, she helps coffee businesses and home enthusiasts elevate their quality and operations.
Balancing her career with her role as a dedicated single mother, she is a true example of resilience and passion, bringing the same level of care to her family as she does to her work. In her personal time she enjoys meditation, yoga, dancing, star gazing, learning more about metaphysical and spiritual practices, and posting these daily experiences on YouTube @sommer_with_an_o.
Website:  www.popupcoffeeeducation.com 
Instagram: @popupcoffeeeducation
TikTok: @popupcoffeeeducation
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

63. Life, Love, and What Matters Most with Rita Smith

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, I'm thrilled to introduce my dear friend Rita!
In this heartwarming conversation, Rita, who now I know I’m not supposed to share a lady’s age, but it comes out in the episode that she’s 95 and ya’ll, Rita is gonna share her invaluable insights on love, relationships, and what truly matters most in life. 
Rita's optimism shines through as we talk about how to stay positive, the importance of connection, communication strategies in dating, what to look for in a partner, how to navigate our differences, and even some flirting tips!
So, whether you're in the dating scene or maybe seeking a fresh perspective on love, this episode is packed with inspiration.Let’s do this flirties!
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About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

62. Decoding Communication in Dating with Molly McPherson

Coming up in this episode of Flirtations, we welcome crisis communications strategist and PR guru Molly McPherson to the show as we decode communication!
Molly and I discuss essential communication strategies for handling those sometimes hard and awkward, yet necessary, conversations in dating, like how to talk about past relationships and what to say if you maybe need to end things with someone. 
We'll explore ways to know if someone is being honest with you through how they communicate, the power of intentions and, of course, share some clever flirting strategies you can use in your dating lives right now. Such as how to say I like you without saying, I like you!
Molly also introduces us to her indestructible PR framework of "own it, explain it, promise it."
All of this and more awaits you inside the episode as we decode communication in dating. 
Alright flirties, let’s meet Molly!
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About our guest:  Molly is the author of "Indestructible: Reclaim Control and Respond with Confidence in a Media Crisis" and is working on her forthcoming book. 
In her career, she's known as an innovator in crisis communication, from introducing digital media strategies at FEMA to developing some of the first crisis communication web resources as communications director for cruise lines during critical incidents like the 9/11 attacks and the 2002 Norovirus outbreaks.
Her insights have garnered international attention, making her a recurring commentator for respected outlets such as NBC News, NPR, Access Hollywood, and Australia's Today morning show. She has also been a featured commentator on ABC's Impact x Nightline, TMZ Investigates on Fox, and Vice TV's NINE LIVES OF...
Additionally, Molly has provided commentary for outlets such as the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, the BBC, and the Wall Street Journal.
Beyond her media presence, Molly is a celebrated keynote speaker, an Adweek Creative Visionary Award winner, and a Forbes.com contributor in leadership and crisis management. She has helped thousands of people, brands, and companies work through crises using the guiding principles she shares with her clients—own it, explain it, promise it.
You can find out more on my website, TikTok, and Instagram.
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

61. The Manifestation Episode! with Sarah Perl

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome the Hot High Priestess, Sarah Perl, to the show! Sarah is a manifestation expert and in this conversation, she will share how you can use manifestation to harness the power of the universe - and the power within you - to create your dream dating life and relationships!
We’ll learn about what manifestation is and how it works, the laws of attraction and how to be the ultimate attractor in your dating life, and how to create a positive mindset with affirmations. 
Sarah will also share what might be blocking you from your manifestations and dating desires, why you should be skeptical, and how to practice detachment so your manifestations can work.
This is too good, I know you’re not going anywhere!
Whether you’re new to manifestation or you’ve been practicing it for a while, this episode has everything you need to manifest your dreams into reality.
Let’s do this flirties!
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About our guest:  Hi! I'm Sarah Perl, better known online as @hothighpriestess. I’m a spiritual, mindset-focused entrepreneur and content creator with a following of over 4.5 million across platforms. I'm the host of the Priestess Perspective Podcast, co-founder of TangoBird Publishing, and the coach behind all programs in the HotHighPriestess universe. I help ambitious souls unlock their limitless potential, manifest extreme wealth, and step into a life of luxury and the love they desire. Whether they're attracting a soulmate or scaling their income, I'm here to guide them there - fast. You can find out more from my links!
Website
Instagram
TikTok
Stan Store
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

60. Your Winter Solstice + New Year's Dating Horoscope with Fernie!

Coming up on this episode of Flirtatations, we’re going to have a magical time as Fernie, our favorite mystic and fortune teller, is back on the show for our winter solstice and new year's dating horoscope!
The longest night of the year has passed us and we'll explore the cosmic energies that will influence our dating lives heading into the new year.
What celestial movements will affect our love lives? How can we use the energies of the solstice to help us prepare for new beginnings and transformations?
Whether it's attracting a new partner, deepening an existing relationship, or working on self-love, Fernie has got plenty of insight on what we should be focusing on for the coming season and how you can tap into the energy of the universe for your own personal growth and romantic aspirations.
Let’s do this, flirties!
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About our guest:  Fernie Salinas (he/they) is a queer Latinx fortune telling witch from the Rio Grande Valley in Texas.  They are the owner and founder of Golden Mirror Fortunes, and they hope to be Your Favorite Fortune Teller! They grew up always knowing that magic was around us, as their great-grandfather and his son, their grand-uncle, were both curanderos (folk healers) in Rio Grande City, and it’s been such a delight to have Golden Mirror Fortunes carry on the legacy of healing and mysticism they instilled in him.
He’s also an educator — he went to Rice University, studied English and Art History, got their teacher’s certification, joined TFA, and have been a teacher and principal at various schools in the RGV.  He is currently an education consultant as well as running Golden Mirror Fortunes, their small fortune telling business.  He uses tarot and magic to help people heal and find their paths, all in service of improving their fortunes.  His deepest desire is to provide you with the light that you need to make your life a little more magical and glittery. Follow them on Instagram and let them be your favorite fortune teller!
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

59. Under the Mistletoe: Your Holiday Flirting and Dating Guide, Pt. 2 with Madison Brandt

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, it’s part two answering more of your holiday dating questions with dating coach and podcast host Madison Brandt!
Today, we’re talking about traveling together for the first time as a new couple or maybe you're figuring things out, and whether or not you invite your maybe new date to the company holiday party or new years!.
Then we'll get into some flirting tips (of course!) if you’re single and ready to mingle, and mindset tips feel festive and embrace the single life.
Finally, we'll talk about how you can acknowledge loneliness if you’re maybe not feeling all that cheery this season.
All of this and more coming up in Part 2 of the holiday episode! Let’s go flirties!
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About our guest:  Madison Brandt is a Dating & Relationship Coach and the host of the Deep Talk Podcast. She's passionate about helping people both find — and keep — a healthy relationship. Madison currently resides in Minneapolis, MN and takes clients virtually. To work with Madison, please visit her website. To follow along with her content, find her at Instagram @wellnessmads or tune into her podcast on Apple or Spotify.
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

58. Under the Mistletoe: Your Holiday Flirting and Dating Guide, Pt. 1 with Madison Brandt

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we've got a festive episode for you with Madison Brandt, host of the Deeptalk Podcast back on the show! 
With the holiday season in full swing, we're answering your most pressing dating questions you might face during this time of year.
In part one of the first ever two part episode, we’ll be talking about balancing festive fun with stress, meeting the family for the first time, plus gift giving and how soon is too soon to put a bow on a box?
We’ve got communication strategies, what to do if you’re spending the holidays apart with someone you just started dating, and what to do when asked about your relationship status and parties and events, but maybe it’s, ya know, complicated! 
So grab your hot cocoa, cozy up by the fire, and get ready for an episode filled with advice, tips, and a whole lot of holiday cheer.
Let's go flirties!
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About our guest:  Madison Brandt is a Dating & Relationship Coach and the host of the Deep Talk Podcast. She's passionate about helping people both find — and keep — a healthy relationship. Madison currently resides in Minneapolis, MN and takes clients virtually. To work with Madison, please visit her website. To follow along with her content, find her at Instagram @wellnessmads or tune into her podcast on Apple or Spotify.
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

Flirtini #11: How the Leopard Got it's Spots

I've got an original short story for you in this Flirtini!
No heads up about what to expect.
If you've got ten minutes, I hope you'll give this episode a listen and if you're streaming on Spotify or YouTube where comments are enabled, please let me know what you think!
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About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!

57. Overcoming Dating Burnout: Breaks, Boundaries, and Staying Hopeful with Michelle Mouhtis

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Michelle Mouhtis to the show for a conversation about dating burnout and staying hopeful navigating the battlefield that is modern dating!
With the endless swiping, messaging, and meeting up, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and exhausted by the dating scene.
Yet today, we hope to make this whole dating process a little bit easier! Inside, we’ll explore what dating burnout is, the ways it can impact our dating lives, and how we can ultimately love ourselves thought it - and out of it. 
We’ll also talk about why you should be taking dating breaks, how to keep your cup full so you can avoid burnout, and how to keep the hope alive even when the dating scene feels exhausting or when you wonder if it's ever meant to be. We got you!
So, Whether you’re feeling burnt out from swiping, having what feels like an endless string or first dates, feeling rejection, or just wanna listen to a podcast, this episode is for you!
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About our guest:  Michelle Mouhtis is a coach for high achieving millennial women and men to find lasting love and deepen the relationship they have with their partners through 1:1 coaching, signature group programs, and masterclasses.
Her work and expertise has been featured in Women’s Health, The Knot, Brides, Wedding Wire, and The Washington Post – to name a few!  Her clients are all high achieving doers by nature like you – physicians, authors, counselors, therapists, entrepreneurs, photographers, and film editors – incredible badass women and men who are creating big waves in this world and looking for their extraordinary equal to build a life they love together.
You can connect with Michelle on Instagram and via her website for more information and to work together!
Please click here for the FREE masterclass mentioned in the episode, "SPARK:  6 Steps to End Dating Burnout."
About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!
As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and deeper connections.
You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.
💗 Happy flirting!